Parent/Guardian Resources

Substance use and misuse can lead to serious problems for college students and behavior that goes unaddressed can cause devastating consequences.

Studies show it isn't uncommon for college students to refrain from using alcohol or other drugs. However, your student may still be exposed to risky behavior. Regardless of whether you have cause for concern, talking with your student about alcohol and other drugs can positively impact your student during their time at college and the rest of their life.

Talking with them about any family history of addiction, your expectations, and the affects of alcohol and other drugs, your student will be better equipped to make informed decisions.

Tips on how to talk to them

• Start the conversation as early as possible in their college career.
• Set clear and realistic expectations regarding academic performance, including:
  • attendance
  • grades
  • safety
  • and substance use.
• Encourage your student to intervene when friends are in trouble with alcohol and other drugs.
• Avoid romanticizing tales or drinking exploits from your own college years.
• Use new stories as conversation starters.
• Listen and keep an open mind.

Warning signs

Students may show signs and symptoms that indicate a problem, or that they are at risk of developing a problem. Examples include:

• drop in grades or lowered academic achievement
• missing classes, appointments or work
• experiencing blackouts
• unable/unwilling to modify their drinking or drug use
• experiencing weight loss, medical difficulties or exhibiting poor hygiene
• excessive drinking
• involved in alcohol-related accidents
• unexplainable mood changes
• recurring underage-drinking violations
• using multiple pharmacies to fill prescriptions
• or switching friends or social circles.

If you're concerned your student is misusing alcohol or substances, do not avoid the issue. Through a calm conversation, let them know you care and want to help. Don't make excuses for your student; empower them to take responsibility for their actions and access the support and help they need.

View Alcohol and Substance Misuse Policies and Protocols for additional information.